Who should take action in my life?

Well as Mr. Sage would say it is a short list.

You should take action. If you have problems fix them. Do not expect help or a hand up. If you get it that is great. But don't plan on it.

I think even the biggest mountain get worn down from rain and wind. Bust it up a piece at a time. Shovel won't dig, get a pick, whatever it takes.

Jedi mind tricks are good in the movies and on TV. But in my life, luck has been preceded by my hard work, sweat, and planning for the next move.

It is best, when all the options you offer to you people in your life are all things you want to have happen. That is a "Win Win".

Don't be a Dam, blocking the flow of energy and good-time; but be the channel that directs the water were it will do the most good.